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’I PRESS ON TOWARD THE MARK!’

In the first phase of my Best Life Diet I didn’t have to make any drastic changes to what I ate.  As a matter of fact I didn’t make any significant changes to what I was eating but when was.  I did have to put myself on a regular meal schedule and having a big breakfast was perhaps the most challenging because I usually don’t eat and entire breakfast in the morning.  Usually I eat a piece of fruit or some yogurt and save the real meal for late morning or lunch time.  But changing my eating time in the morning was and still is a challenge.  Stopping the night time eating two hours before I go to sleep was cake, however.  But it allowed me to snack at later times because I usually don’t go to bed until late.  Before I started the diet I stopped eating before 7:00 as a rule but this new one just gave me license to have a later snack.  Even after all of this schedule shifting I was still hungry and some days hungrier than before.  I know this was because I started working out after being completely sedentary for a year during my pregnancy not to mention that I’m nursing an infant.  I also think that my nursing contributed to not only being hungry all the time but perhaps my body is resisting any weight loss.  Most of my girlfriends lost significant ‘poundage’ while they were nursing.  I mean so much so that they were the thinnest I had ever seen them.  A few of them on the other hand didn’t lose anything until they stopped.  Of course this would probably me.

 

I’m feeling discouraged right now but I will continue to ‘press on toward the mark.’ I’m going to have to make a few drastic changes myself because I know how my body is from past experiences.  For one I’m going to ramp up my workouts on my off days.  I have been doing the elliptical machine sporadically but now I’m going to strap myself to one.  Cutting down my portion sizes are another.  I don’t think I eat a lot but the scale obviously says something else.  What I’m going to eat differently is a mystery.  My husband and I went through our kitchen last night and he commented that he couldn’t remember the last time he saw white bread, pasta, rice, or white potatoes in the house.  I simply don’t buy them and we rarely eat out anymore since the baby was born.  Fried food has been a no no for both of us since before we got married and we look at every label before we buy to make sure it has no Trans fats.  As a matter of fact I bought my first loaf of bread (it was 12 grain whole wheat) since the beginning of last summer only because I needed the fiber.  High fat foods like ice cream and cakes haven’t seen the inside of my kitchen in over a year, and it’s not because they aren’t welcome, trust me! So for phase II, changing my food choices is a little tricky, cutting back on the amounts may be the only change.

4 Responses to “’I PRESS ON TOWARD THE MARK!’”

  1. TREMEKIAH Says:

    GOOD FOR YOU GIRL! YOU KEEP THE ATTITUDE YOU HAVE AND YOU’LL DO JUST FINE. I’M ALSO STARTING TO THE “WEIGHT LOSS THING” AND AFTER READING YOUR STORY IT DOESN’T SEEM LIKE IT’S COING TO BE AS HARD AS I THOUGHT. SO IN A WAY YOUR STORY GAVE ME MORE ENCOURAGEMENT TO STICK WITH IT, SO THANK YOU AND GOOD LUCK TO YOU.

  2. Yvonne Carter Says:

    Lakita:

    You are the same determined person that I met (many moons ago). As a two time mom (my youngest is two), I want to offer you ENCOURAGEMENT…don’t beat yourself up on your bad days (and there will be bad days…that’s life). But get right back on the saddle again. I bounced back to a size 6 after my first (1999), but my second child (challenged me). I hired help this time and I was determined. It did not happen over night…I am a size 7/8 (but I still want that size 6). But I am patience with myself. You will get there, it won’t happen over night..

    Congrats on your newborn (focus on motherhood and the rest will come). Also, take the baby for A LOT of walks and the weight will fall off…
    Blast from your past (Eisenhower High - Class of 85)

    Yvonne Carter-Carter (Carter is also my married name too)

  3. Cecilia Says:

    Girl, you workout like a monster! I’ve seen you in action and you’re a trooper! Even if you feel discouraged, just know that at the end of the day, YOU are closer and closer to your goal and that is to have the BEST LIFE for you… the pounds will shred eventually but what you have been doing has been fabulous!

    Keep it up!!

  4. Cecilia Says:

    Girl, you workout like a monster! I’ve seen you in action and you’re a trooper! Even if you feel discouraged, just know that at the end of the day, YOU are closer and closer to your goal and that is to have the BEST LIFE for you… the pounds will shred eventually but what you have been doing has been fabulous!

    Keep it up!!